A Night in the Life: Overcoming Mom Guilt with Love and Determination

I've always been THAT mom—the one who hovers protectively, the nurturer and empathetic guide, even if I sometimes fall short in the discipline department. I could hear how upset my littlest was, and how hard KC was trying to calmly get the kids ready for their week all alone because my physical limitations barred me from bending or lifting them, so I sat and sulked. 

Then Sutton came into my room and asked to snuggle, so, I asked her to join me in the chair, taking extra care as she settled onto my lap. Together, we breathed slowly, and she expressed her desire to stay there for a little while. In just a few minutes, she drifted into peaceful sleep. What she needed was simple: she just wanted ME. Even with my limitations, I was resolute in providing the comfort she yearned for and it was good for me too. 

As I was running my fingers through her hair, I couldn't help but momentarily let doubts about being a working mom overshadow the sweetness of that moment with my youngest. Leaving the stay-at-home life to work wasn't solely a financial necessity; it was driven by my personal aspirations and passions. I knew I could do a great job for my clients, serving as the advocate and negotiator they deserved. It was a unique sense of protection for my clients that spurred me on, and I continually fight for them harder than I know anyone to do. 

Then I was reminded of a profound truth - I am not alone. There's a community of parents who understand the guilt, the heartache, and the determination to make it all work. We're all navigating this journey, adapting to changes, and cherishing fleeting moments with our children. So, I wanted to take this opportunity to remind you that you're doing your best, you're strong, and your love for your children is unwavering. The shadow of guilt may linger, but it's a testament to your deep care.

 I want my children to remember this chapter of our lives, where I toiled with unwavering determination to pave the way for their future, crafting a life they deserve. Although I may miss some things in the today, I'm committed to finding innovative ways to fill my children's hearts with love while adhering to the restrictions in place - even if it's just a brief snuggle on a post-op recliner. I am passionate about being a mom, and my love for being a realtor is equally fierce. While my role as a mother always takes precedence, I extend the same level of care to my clients as I do to my own family. I genuinely care about my clients and work tirelessly to secure the best for them, advocating for them just as fervently as I would for my own family. The knowledge that many of you trust me, referring me to your friends and family, is an honor I deeply appreciate. Even in moments of doubt, like tonight, I am reminded of my goals and the amazing support system I have.

I hope today's Broncos win sets everyone up for a great week!